Hi Distressed,
I understand your fear of bankruptcy i feel same way to be honest tho'it may go that way yet. Folks are very supportive on this forum and some great Experts and it's good to see other people's views and experiences.
Speak with someone at MYVESTA too for they are very kind there and would give you a 12 month support and bankruptcy forms are gone over by an expert to make sure they are done right all for £59-+ your Bankruptcy fee currently £475, if i'm correct, if on benefits minus £150-but you can do the forms online.
They would say it doesn't matter what others think you have to do what is right for you and at least it offers some kind of closure if you are not likely to be ever thinking of going into a Profession that precludes bankrupts.
Nationaldebtline website is good too for all you need to know. Insolvencyhelpline.co.uk
Insolvency.gov
Citizens Advice can be patchy depending on your area and funding.It needs to have Debt Worker but you would have to ask or look at CAB site.It's down to creating the correct Income & Expenditure sheets by one of these charities and nationaldebtline have them online anyway.
If there was a Community Law Centre in your area might be helpful.
Yellow pages look at local Accountants they may give you good advice.
Most Charities are strapped for cash at moment.
Detail your circumstances and if rural or not and wot got you into debt changes in your situation etc.See how you could do different.
Best of luck-it's all steps until you come around to what's going to benefit you-there are plusses and minuses with whatever you choose.There are some good Experts on here, be choosy.[:x)]razamataz_
distressed wrote:
My hubby and I do not want to do a BR. Just the thought of it causes me to burst into tears and my hubby very distressed.We did create the debts and would like to pay them back. IF we have to through having the IVA rejected or a creditor forcing us be made BR will we be giving the opportunity to BEG the judge not to accept it? Or are they pretty automatic no matter what the debtors say?