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Oopssidaisies

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Post by Oopssidaisies » Thu Jul 04, 2013 1:24 pm
bit concerned and need serious advice, my other half moved in with me this year but we've always kept our finances v seperate as he's self employed and works down in london anyway - he lives with me but actually lives down in london in the week working and oobviously i have my iva so finances v seperate and my iva person has always understood that but we're thinking of getting married - my parents will apy for small registery office ceremony - but am concerned that they'll try and get him to pay towards my iva which simply isnt going to work - should i be worried/not go ahead with wedding??
 
 

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Post by Tina Shortland » Thu Jul 04, 2013 4:40 pm
Hi oopssidaisies, congratulations on this exciting phase of your relationship! Your partner will not be expected to pay towards your IVA as they are not his debts. I assume your I&E has been viewed following the change in living arrangements as I would imagine he is contributing to the household costs in some way? This is the only thing that would need to happen if it hasn't already. You will also need to let your IP know your plans. Your new husband might want to put a notice of disassociation on his credit file to make sure he is not affected once you are married. And also avoid opening a joint account unless it is completely away from any of your creditors.

All that aside, happy wedding planning!
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Post by Shining » Thu Jul 04, 2013 7:42 pm
Huge congratulations from me too. Tina gives excellent advice, enjoy yourself don't let the IVA put your life on hold.
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Post by luluj » Thu Jul 04, 2013 9:02 pm
Congratulations from me too .... I have responded on your other thread ... DOn't put your life on hold x
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Post by Struzzo39 » Thu Jul 04, 2013 10:12 pm
Congratulations :)
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