Hi Tracey
Your first IVA - the one which went horribly wrong for you due to a misunderstanding between you and a member of your IP's staff - has now been removed from the IVA register. So you are no longer subject to those proceedings.
Firstly, consider whether it is better for you to enter into a DMP, propose an IVA or go bankrupt. Only you can make that decision, but you do appear to have a viable IVA to propose, and I doubt very much whether your creditors will bother too much about what has gone on before. So you really have nothing to lose. If the IVA is rejected again, then you are left with two choices - but only think about those if this happens as you are eating yourself up with worry at the moment.
I personally do not feel that a complaint against your former IP is warranted. There are clearly issues on both sides here, and the matter now appears to be resolved. That's up to you, though, and if you do not feel that you have received an appropriate standard of care then this is what the Regulatory Bodies are there for.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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http://www.melaniegiles.com and view my IVA blog at:
http://melaniegiles.blogs.iva.co.uk