Rachel
Your number one priority now is your daughter, and I wish her well with her operation. Poor little one it is just not fair, but keep strong and all will be well.
I would never ask a client to provide petrol receipts for trips to visit a sick child in hospital, but the relationship I have with my clients is rather different to IPs who are handling large portfolios of cases.
If it would help, Paul Johns of Reviva has an excellent reputation of dealing with client disputes with their IP and it might be worth giving him a call. Whilst in a perfect world, this should not be necessary, quite often a word in the right ear reaps rewards.
We'll all be thinking of you on Monday, and do let us know how everything goes.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner