Hi jg and welcome to the forum
I think both of them are right in part and wrong in part - so I am probably going to confuse you even further!!!
The reality is that an IVA is an individual agreement between you and your creditors. The only reason you partner is taken into account, it to enable the IP to work out your disposable income. This is done by taking your salary and your partner's salary and working out the ratio of contribution you each make to the household income. For instance you might earn £1,000 per month, and your partner £2,000. In which case you are deemed to earn 33% of the joint income.
The same percentage is then applied to the shared household bills - ie you pay 33% of the costs, which then enables your disposable income to be calculated. So you are entering into the IVA on your own - but your partner's share of the joint income and expenditure is disclosed. Don't worry, his disposable income is his and does not need to be offered to creditors.
Can you advise me how much you owe, and what disposable income you have using the above method of calculation. Also do you own a property with equity in it? I can then advise you further.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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http://www.melaniegiles.com and view my IVA blog at:
http://melaniegiles.blogs.iva.co.uk