the woman from picture is trying to frighten you, what she probably means that if you wished to keep your home after BR and this was possible and you were making the mortgage payments then the secured element of pictures would still be there, but as this is not what you are doing you are giving the keys back so therefore the property becomes the OR's, i think this is what go4broke means also, picture as he rightly says will only get the left overs once the mortgage co has been paid, i think the woman from picture is hoping that you are trying to do everything to keep the roof over your head from being sold, we have all made mistakes and that is why we are here but don't beat yourself up about it now, you have tried your best.
when i petition for BR i will lose my house i don't have any secured charges on it although one has threatened it but will take a few months to do as they have to ccj me first and me not pay it, i wouldn;t have known that had it not been for the different forums i read and would have panicked.
capital one offerring a 100k loan is very funny ask them if it could be unsecured to get picture off your back lol, only joking.
i hope everthing starts to look a little clearer for you soon, have you tried the CAB also for information, its free at least!
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