after talking with kelly who has also posted here

who works or is melanie giles? i'm confused haha but i felt really at ease with them

but i'm obviously so scared or just feel like i need someone to tell me i'm doing the right thing? or its going to be ok!!! i'm so stressed over it all and the more stuff i read, the more confused i become! who's to say the creditors will say yes? also hmrc? who is that the government? sorry i seem pretty silly, i don't really understand it all, hence asking for some help! we have 38k of debt lloyds tsb being 10k barclays 7500, aa 7500, so on!!
were on a repayment mortage with the halifax, but husband is a self employed carpenter, we are married with 5 children. we have a mortage of 202k outstanding. they say who ever iv'e spoken to that out house is worth 260k ( even though my neighbours is up for 300k) i'm so scared and stupid but i know we cant go on paying step change and nothing changing! having this around our necks for the forseable future just makes me want to cry :'( i'm really sorry if iv'e confused you any more,i really do appreciate you all taking the time to help me

after all i don't feel as though iv'e any where left to turn. i think mealanie giles sounds great, what are your thoughts?
please help xxx