As one who regularly acts as Trustee in bankruptcy as well as Supervisor of IVA's, I have to say that I would probably be taking a similar stance given the time that you have both been living together. Do you have any children as a matter of interest, or any agreement between you that you have no interest in the property?
Is this a private sector Trustee or the Official Reciever? If the former, then they must feel that they have a good case or they would not have agreed to accept the appointment, unless creditors are funding their administration.
As Catullus states, however, the onus is on the Trustee to prove their claim, and not your husband's to provide that the Trustee does not have one. This will require the Trustee to gather up sufficient evidence of your payments for property upkeep and improvements during the period you have been living together. I agree that he should not attend a meeting at present until he has sought specialist legal advice.
Interestingly if you were involved in matrimonial proceedings against your husband you would more than likely be awarded some form of interest in the property, so I don't really see the difference under bankruptcy proceedings to be frank.
I think that you should attend a meeting with the Trustee if they wish you to - this will enable you to determine the strength of their claim (if any) and allow you to properly put your case forward. A convincing meeting at this stage, might just persuade the Trustee to put the file away and not risk losing an expensive Court case where he would also pick up your costs as well.
How much is the property worth, and what equity is there after the mortgage is taken into account? And what was the value of your overall creditors? Also who did you take advice from prior to petitioning?
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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