It seems youre both under a great deal of pressure here, I cant see why NR are doing this to you. I bet the 5K they want is only a drop in the ocean for them, yet straws and camels come to mind from your end. Try sticking to your guns.... tell them its really not an option, your daughter must come first, I would be very suprised if a trustee in BR would take this car from you knowing what it means to your daughters quality of life. Sometimes a sick child is enough to deal with and I speak from experience....In the past there have been many times the one little thing on top of everything else I deal with is just too much and I cry buckets and want to run away.
My thoughts are with you, I hope you can work this out.
I do hope you manage to get this sorted soon. This is the last thing you need on top of all your other stress.
Big ))hug(( coming you way.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
Just a quick update to say that the creditors accepted the doctor's letter re the car and our IVA is going ahead after a few other minor modifications. Great (yet scary!!) news just before Christmas.[:D]
Regards, David Mond, Insolvency Practitioner for over 46 years. Personal Insolvency Practitioner of the year 2012, Personal Insolvency Practitioner of the year finalist 2013 & 2014 awarded by Insolvency & Rescue Magazine and 2015 finalist for Personal Insolvency Firm of the Year.