diagnosed with early and progressive dementia

[plasticdaft]

If there is little or no equity in the house why dont you both go BR!! You have made the effort to repay creditors to the best of your ability. Get the debt monkey off your back and enjoy life for a while while you are still fit and able. The debts really must play second fiddle to your health especially when serious illness strikes.

Fingers crossed your IP see's sense,but if theywont play ball then dont drag your heels over this.

Enjoy America,I trust it will be an open top car that has a horrendously low MPG figure but sounds like a lino roaring as your drive off into the sunset?!?

Paul.

[Skippy]

I agree with Plasticdaft that it's definitely worth considering BR. Speak to your IP (not your case manager) and take their advice.

Have a fantastic time in the US x

[pbelter]

Thank you all.

We are putting any decisions out of our mind and enjoying our holiday. No doubt it will be in the back of our mind though.

We have booked the biggest SUV and disgracefully gas guzzling car we can! Hope it roars like a lion.

[plasticdaft]

Thank you all.

We are putting any decisions out of our mind and enjoying our holiday. No doubt it will be in the back of our mind though.

We have booked the biggest SUV and disgracefully gas guzzling car we can! Hope it roars like a lion.

Brilliant. I hope you have a fantastic time and will hope to hear from you on your return.

Mind and drive on the right!!![;)]

Paul

[pbelter]

Paul - you mean they drive on the wrong side of the road.......................

Jan

I would love to be able to hear your experiences of your husbands dementia - things to come for me. However this is not the right place to do so. If you would like to, ** bearing in mind that I will be away for the next two weeks.

Philip

Hi Philip,
** We don't advise anyone to publish their email on this, a public forum. To safeguard your privacy, your email address has been deleted.
If you ask people to add you as a frugal friend, and add them yourself on your frugal friends list (on your profile page) you will be able to email them safely [:)]

admin

[Skippy]

Philip, I have removed your email address to prevent you being inundated with spam!

If you go to your profile and click on the Forum Members dropdown (towards the bottom on the right side of the page) you will then be able to scroll down the list of forum members and select anyone you want to add. When you've done this click on the 'Add Frugal Friend' button. If the other person also does this you will be able to contact each other.

[admin]

[:)]

[Skippy]

Admin was obviously too quick for me!

[admin]

Not at all Skippy, reckon we were typing at the same time, both worried about the email address ... [:)]

[pbelter]

Thanks

I have now added as a frugal friend.

Sorry for the inconvenience

Philip

[Skippy]

Don't apologise! It's a shame we can't do that but sadly some people have nothing better to do than send spam emails x

[Jan01]

Hi Philip

Enjoy your holiday and forget about your problems just fcus on having a great time. As soon as I have worked out how to add you as a frugal freind I will be happy to email you about our journey with dementia. As I said to our GP we have come to the surprising time in our marriage as I am surprised at what he does sometime. 'speak' to you whaen you get back take care and enjoy

Jan