font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica">quote:<hr height="1" noshade>Originally posted by lem
You know Paul, our daughter is 13 and we keep thinking in another year or so we might talk to her about it, how did your son react? and how much did you tell him? I don't want to her spend her life worrying for us that's what puts me off, but by the same token, I think it would make life a little easier if she knew
We explained it to him one summers day when he was moaning that ALL his friends were going away on holiday. He is an intelligent lad so we didnt have to sugar coat anything,just told him the whole truth,the reasons we got into debt etc. His 1st reaction was to point out that his playstation was bought on my platinum tsb card and if I wasnt repaying my debts in full the bank in fact bought it for him. The bank also paid for 2 Florida holidays!!!
We were almost 30 months into our 42 month agreement and he has counted down the months along with us.
He knows why he has missed out on some things but realises that we are in a much better way now than were and we plan on another Florida holiday next year,paid for up front this time!!!
Kids take in much more than we ever realise so your daughter may already be wondering whats going on. Have a chat with her is my advice,if nothing else it may just teach her a valuable life lesson!!
Paul
Discharged today the 8th feb 2012. View is much brighter now.
Continuing to rebuild our credit worthiness.