dots is back on the forum again

[dots]

Sorry having been away so long, but for some reason time has just passed by with progressions in reverse...

Unfortunately the lady I was seeing in June only lasted a couple of weeks because she did actually have whatever issues about my lack of money after all, so reverted to singledom once again... I was fuming not that it didn't work, but her false reassurances! hey-ho!!

As far as early settlements go; that also seems out of the window, as sources now have problems raising assistance and so must plod on maybe to full end... I did write to my IP and had a one month holiday from payments to try and get ahead of current flow issues, and now back on the VA track with additional arrears, but my IP has agreed to my proposal of monthly reductions of arrears via cheque with my payslips also sent monthly... I am happy to do this as the cover letter always keeps my IP continuously up to date.

I am on leave right now, but no dosh to do anything, so just chillin' out as I can... I have been lucky on some "Freecycle" items (Freecycle as promoted on my website), and managed to pop out in car to get some free furniture and electricals, so all is not totally lost...

56 months done, 16 to go (plus arrears)...

[Viki.W]

Hey Gordon, good to see you back but sorry about your lady, you seemed so happy aswell. Never mind, plenty of other lovely ladies out there who won't care about your IVA....only you. X

[dots]

Thanks Viki... maybe VA dating agency could be generated on here ... lol

[kallis3]

Good to see you back. Sorry your relationship didn't work out, but she obviously wasn't the one!

[kallis3]

Good to see you back. Sorry your relationship didn't work out, but she obviously wasn't the one!

There is someone out there just for you![:)]

[dots]

Thanks Jan, but am I seeing double, or are you writing twice??? lol ... Good to see you are still going strong

[kallis3]

Ooops!!!!!!!!!!!

Must be the whisky I had!!!!!!!!![:D][:D]

[dots]

Whiskey??? Very dry here, must go and get some soon! ... maybe one or two more... Hey, come end of January 2010 i'll be able to afford the whole bottle!!!!!!! ... Sniffing the cap just does not do it for me

[kallis3]

Medicinal purposes, and only the cheapest cheap stuff from Tesco!

[dots]

Absolutely... medicinal... come end of January 2010 I will receive my first pay not subject to VA as final (72nd) payment Jan 1st. ... I will need as much medicine to overcome the excitement of making the last bloomin' payment!!!

[Lisa2009]

Great to see you back xxx

[Soulgrowth]

Hi Dots

Good to see you around again, your posts always brighten my day!

Welcome back to the world of singledom as well ... the lady in question was obviously not good enough for you [:)]

Debbie

[dots]

Obviously been away too long, the forum refiling system has changed since last active... Thought this thread had gone, but has been instantly moved to different section... I was used to it all staying in current month messages until month end... no good just keep refreshing the page anymore!!! Thanks for all your kind words... just need to keep a track of where all the messages file to

[dots]

Thanks Debbie, it became clearly obvious quite soon that there was a falseness, why bother in first place??? I feel like I have been used as a throw-away toy ... If I had treated her in same way, I would have been labelled so many things... but I do feel I can LOL with this one, just a shame that's all ... hey-ho and all that!

[dots]

I have just been watching the recording about flight 93 and recalled my memories of 911 and where I was abroad at the time having taken my parents on their first flight abroad and looking still needing to fly us home... that is reality emotions, not someone wanting to mess your brain with false thoughts.