Skippy
The only person you need to be honest with is yourself! It seems to me that you are struggling at a very early stage of your IVA, to the extent that you are starting to resent it. In other words the IVA has simply replaced the pressure you were under from the creditors collectively, and therefore it is not giving you the opportunity to move forward.
You admit that you do not understand where some of the figures came from, and that you probably signed the paperwork under duress, without really thinking things through carefully. I do wonder whether you had the best advice in the first place - who is your IP? Did you meet them personally or was everything done over the phone?
You are entitled to declare yourself bankrupt to get away from the pressure, and Lily is right that the Official Reciever tends to be more generous with regard to allowable expenditure - after all you are going bankrupt because you cannot afford to pay the contributions any more, so they are not going to make you pay the same amount - and your partner's income does not come into the equation.
With regard to your car, you will be allowed to keep a car up to the value of £3,500 in bankruptcy. If your car is worth more than this, then it will have to be sold but you will be given a £3,500 allowance from the sale proceeds to source a replacement.
If you feel that you want to continue with the IVA, but have your payments reduced, this can only be done by formal variation. I have many times managed to vary arrangements providing a lower dividend than 25p in the £ - so give it a go if you think it is worth it. If it doesn't work, then maybe bankruptcy becomes more appealing.
Continue to post for us, as you are one of our most valued members - you too Lily!!!
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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