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Post by Judo » Fri May 06, 2011 8:15 pm
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Oh lesley. I can only imagine how you must be feeling! *hugs* for you.
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Post by Shining » Fri May 06, 2011 8:16 pm
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September/October no definite date yet, so each Saturday or Sunday is very precious at the minute. I want to find time to take them to Manchester too as my Mum is of an age now and she's only seen them once when they were 3 months old.
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Post by kallis3 » Fri May 06, 2011 8:21 pm
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You'll have to start saving the pennies so you can go and see them.

I do feel for you, I know how much you love them and enjoy your weekends with them.
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Post by Shining » Fri May 06, 2011 8:25 pm
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I doubt I'll ever get out there Jan to be fair but they will come back sometimes as twins other Nan is here, I'm hurting like crazy but my son well as big as he is, sobbed like a baby when we were told.....breaks my heart for him and there is nothing he can do to stop it apparently. x
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Post by kazzafunk » Fri May 06, 2011 8:46 pm
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That's really sad news Lesley. Big hugsxxxxxxx
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Post by kallis3 » Fri May 06, 2011 8:53 pm
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I would have thought he had rights Lesley.
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Post by Shining » Fri May 06, 2011 9:08 pm
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Because it's in the EU there isn't a lot he can do really, he is going to take some legal advice but it doesn't look good. x
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Post by kallis3 » Fri May 06, 2011 9:16 pm
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That's awful Lesley.
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Post by Shining » Fri May 06, 2011 9:20 pm
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They are on speaking terms as we all are but this is so unfair on him, I can live with it but they're his babies x
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Post by kallis3 » Fri May 06, 2011 9:21 pm
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It's very unfair, the kids need their dad as well as their mum!
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Post by Shining » Fri May 06, 2011 9:32 pm
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They're getting a new one Jan that's the problem, although she has reassured us that my A will always be their Dad and her new hubby will only ever be known by his first name........we'll see.
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Post by kallis3 » Fri May 06, 2011 9:34 pm
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Let's hope she sticks to that!
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Post by kazzafunk » Fri May 06, 2011 11:30 pm
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Dreadful situation. I saw an awful story recently where an ex was allowed to emigrate to Australia as the judge said the father could see them on skype! What is going on with the law?
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Post by MrsKnight » Fri May 06, 2011 11:57 pm
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Just catching up on this Lesley, I am so sorry & have no idea what to say that can help. If I could I would give you all a big hug. I really feel for your son & can not begin to think how any of you are feeling.

It may not be a comfort as im sure you will be over there as much as u can, but children never forget their minds are amazing when so young xxxxx
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Post by Julie » Sat May 07, 2011 7:15 am
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Like I said the other night Lesley , life is so unfair!

If they do, she will get cheap if not free flights so trips back may be more frequent than you think. Besides, it's not going to be easy for her to adjust in different country with 2 little ones and no family support, so you never know, it may not turn out as planned.

They are gorgeous boys with wicked laughs.. I love seeing their pics and videos on FB xx
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