Awww I am glad youre Ok, I really felt for you, this is such a sad way for your family to be. I told my family everything and they were fine, really supportive, I was offered help and they didnt judge but since then its the unmentionable and I still feel a little bit less, probably more perceived than actual.
My son was kicked in the head in a special school and taken to hospital for stiches and obs, the culprit is in prison now, they closed ranks, I went up there incensed and upset as my son is so inoffensive but very small. He (the culprit), was supposed to be supervised at all times, he wasnt, the staff were less than helpful, knowing it was their fault, so I called the police, my son had to go onto video with a 'special' (whatever that means). If it hadnt been for a girl in a wheelchair screaming for help it might have been worse. Its the most upsetting thing, and I would have killed that swine if he hadnt been sent back home to Wales to think again. As far as I know this was his 3rd offence, thank God he has been locked up, whatever his problems were.
I hope you enjoy your sons 18th... Good luck with the IVA, show them all what youre made of... Its only money, youre life is worth so much more. Dont give up, we are always here for you.
Love and best wishes.