Soulgrowth, you have hit the nail on the head. I told my mother of my problems and my family also, I didnt want to but I couldnt keep on making excuses as it left them wondering. My mother died very suddenly, noone expected it. I know she died proud that I was sorting out my problems, she told me. I wouldnt have had that if I hadnt told her. I honestly dont think family members judge, you are the precious you they love, the rest is just minor detail. I know everyone is different but I found a huge releif knowing that I could be honest, I couldnt afford clothes or flowers for her funeral but my sister and brother paid for both, as such a distressing time, I just know I wouldnt have cope with the 'secret' as well as the grief and shock. I would say be honest, to those that love you, it wont matter and those that dont, dont matter.
Love to all.
