thanks for the replies!

I have looked at that budgeting thanks Kazzy! It lookes like i did have everything on my budget, i didnt know i could put car maintenence and tax on there though! Im getting somewhere!
I have also applied for the Natwest Step account. This should hopefully come through soon so im getting ready for it all.
Couple of more questions if i may. Am i right in thinking that the basic options are that if i have lots of surplus money each month after non debt outgoings then i will be recommended debt management? if i have about £200-£300 spare it will be an IVA? and if i have hardly anything i will be told to go bankrupt? Does that sound right?
Once i make a phone call and set up a meeting do i bring 3 months bank statements? all my credit card bills etc? wageslips? What do i need to bring with me to prove everything said in the phone call?
I think the next step is to keep looking through the posts on here i guess and then phone someone up on my next day off and go through it all!
Thank everyone!