hr1350 wrote:
Sorry i am just trying to bump this up a bit
In over my head looking for somewhere to turn
I personally would consider coming clean with your parents, they will have seen financial hardship before. I think that once they get over the news they can help support you emotionally with this problem, face your shame its probably not as bad as you think, then accept and deal with the problem. Talk to them about your solutions DMP, IVA, and BR,
I personally would consider BR living with parents, this way you can get rid of the debts, be in bankruptcy for a year, you might have to make payments into your bankruptcy for up to 3 years, this will be decided by the official reciever, I found them to be nice people and realistic about what you need to live. you dont earn a great deal and they will take all your expenditure into consideration. I personally would have had to pay into my bankruptcy if I earned more that 21+k a year because of my circumstances. I personally was discharged after 6 and a half months I and started to get on with life again, and not paid one bean to my creditors.
It ruins your credit rating as does IVA, but thats not all bad as its credit that got you here in the first place.
As opposed to struggling on with a DMP or IVA it has to be a viable option.
My bankruptcy was a breeze and my name wasn't printed in the paper (not that I would have worried) they very rarely do in my town as it would seem most others, they need the space for ads and too many people choosing BR route.
Remember, If you have not assets, they can't take what you have not got. Don't be bullied by creditors, or schmoozed by IVA companies trying to make a buck.
Good Luck...... and sooner than you think it will be a distant memory.