To be honest the stigma of bankruptcy isn't anywhere near as bad as it used to be. My notice was tucked away at the back of the local paper - you would only find it if you were looking for it. The only people who have mentioned the BR to me are people I have told. Do you have any assets you wish to protect?
What career do you have in mind? If you post it on here one of the experts will be able to advise you.
My IVA proposal had the same modification, but I was told that my IP wouldn't make me BR, and I could wait a long time for the creditors to do it. I just wanted it over and done with, so I did it as soon as I could afford to.
I don't know how much you owe, but a DMP could be an option, although please be aware that this could go on for years, especially if your creditors don't agree to freeze the interest.
Good luck whatever you decide.
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