Thank you for your replies!
A bit more information for you.
The £6000 is the full amount if I were to carry on paying my monthly payments.
My ex partner left in November 2009 and went bankrupt using our house as the address. Leaving me with 2 children, our joint mortgage and a joint halifax loan secured to the property which is simply unfair, he now lives in a nice apartment with no debts and works as a taxi driver earning in excess of £500 per week! So you understand my frustration?
Now we (children and I) have only 1/2 the income we had before coming in I am seriously struggling to make payments, putting mortgage 1st then loan and IVA. I am 1 month behind with IVA payments and have no way to catch up, I could also miss next months I fear.
My friend knows that if the IVA fails I will probably have to go through bankruptcy which i will fight tooth and nail to avoid, this is his reason for helping me out.
Many thanks
Max ( femail

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