I don't feel we were given any realistic advice, were weren't told what we could and couldn't include, so we basically got rid of everything, from gym membership (which I actually felt was necessary due to helping immensely with PNdepression) to all kids clubs.
We have a totally unrealistic budget, we can't save for anything, Xmas, contingencies etc.. We buy horrible cheap food because our food budget is so low for a growing family of four, we have more stress than when we just owed money to credit cards, loans etc. at least then we had options, I don't feel we were given sensible advice and wish we were back 18 months ago, I'm not sure I would have chosen this option, even though it seemed like a god send at the time.