Thanks Melanie. I was rather despondent that she made it sound like variation/F&F settlement, (is that one and the same thing? and is it better to refer to it as a variation?),was not something that was possible, infact all she wanted to know was who had advised me that I could make a "full and final settlement" she put it in quotation marks as though I had made the term up myself!
I didn't take advice from anyone, just discovered this forum at the same time that the struggle started to get worse and when I discussed with my sister she said she could help.
My sister may be able to offer me more than £2500 and so really I need to know what is a reasonable offer which is likely to be accepted.
Obviously I need to discuss this with my IP and hopefully she will be a bit more helpful but I'd appreciate any help.
My original debt was £58,361 with contributions of £444 per month. the return was 26p in the pound.
I have told my IP I would continue paying while a meeting was being arranged so will definitely have made 40 payments,(+ whatever the offer I make), with 20 left to go.
Also, another question,before my IVA was agreed, I paid 3 payments, at monthly intervals, of £400. My IP said I should do this as a "show of willingness" and that the IVA would be more likely to be agreed if I did this. Do those payments count towards the IVA and if not, what happens to them?
Sorry for the lengthy reply, so many questions and thoughts.It's a relief to be in touch with other IVAers and professionals on this forum it's invaluable for info and just feeling that you aren't the only one!
Thankyou.
Nicola.