Thanks for all of your advice. I am ashamed of my situation. I done this to my kids, and wife and now i live in fear, We keep a diary as advised by the asbo team and police but here in scotland it seems that there is little that can be done, one of my kids or myself and wife will have to be assaulted or worse before anything happens, The have family that have been in the SAS and they know seedy people, that they could have me sorted, but what can i do.
My wife is worried about me, my drinking, that takes the edge off, its just not fair, I wish I could wave a wand not make the stupid mistakes I did. It all started after the death of my Mother in Law It made my wife Suicidal and she is still very depressed. That was five years ago and we just didnt care about the debt. Nothing mattered to me except her being here with me, and those so called friends know all that and are trying to push us right over the edge. It just may work.
I also work with them and they have told everyone in the office what I am like and have said i WILL GET NO WHERE THERE. I am very good at my job and went for another job in the office they are friends with the interview panel so I know I dont have a chance . I am off work this week ill with the weight of worry. Thanks again everyone I appreciate any advise you can give me.