Hi dj
The suggestion of finding a job is a good one - not only to increase your disposable income but also to demonstrate a willingness on your part to put your best foot forward in dealing with your creditors. It is, I am afraid, a fairly sad state of affairs that in this country giving up work to raise a family is more and more unaffordable - and you appear to have done this purely by living on a high level of borrowings.
Your creditors will also not be happy to see that 61% of your income is going in mortgage and secured loan payments totalling £1,823, which is a clear demonstration of living beyond your means - I agree with Andy Davie that some of your other expenditure seems unrealistically low.
Given the magnum of your debts, bankruptcy could be a better option for you, and moving into cheaper rented accomodation would also be a good idea, albeit this would leave you with an unsecured shortfall to Picture loans which other forum members, and several of my own clients, are currently having difficulties with.
The thing to do is to do something now - you cannot carry on living with the sort of outgoings you are currently bearing for much longer, and you should not take out any further borrowings as you will not be in a position to repay them.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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