Having such a rubbish time.

[reggie sturd]

hi drowning mummy, thought it might help you to know, ive been where you are. the best thing i did was to turn off ring tone on my phone.!!apart from the wife and i, the constant calls were driving my dog mad!the action i took had absolutely no relevance to the arrangement of my iva.
The only outcome from trying to be reasonable with these brain washed muppets is to stress yourself further.!!

[michael.t47]

funnily enough the phone conversations i have had so far have been quite pleasant

[Soulgrowth]

Group hug everyone .... ahhh ... that's better.[:)]

"Reggie" ... good to see you online ... I trust that "Mrs Reggie" is well also ... I completely agree with "Reggie" I didn't answer any of the phone calls or letters and it made no difference whatsover to the eventual successful outcome of my IVA and subsequent F&F.

I have just been downloading some music for an old gents funeral tomorrow and I was reminded of the St.Francis of Assisi prayer ... interpret "Lord" in your own way.

Debbie



Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy;
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

[michael.t47]

big group hug
thanks for that debbie

[drowning-mummy]

Hi all,
Been off-line for a couple of days. Been out in the garden and doing that up very cheaply thanks to freecycle.org (I'm an addict).
Did my Race For Life today at Mote Park in Maidstone, managed to do it 30 mins and now I ache!
Feeling more positive. Home phone permanently unplugged and just put mobile on silent!
Have got back into my running and I find that helps, looking forward to going back to work and earning some money.
And the chips were lush!!!!!!!!!!!

Glad to read that you are all helping each other. What a lovely bunch!

[Viki.W]

Hey drowning-mummy, well done on the run and I'm glad you're feeling a bit better. The sun,fresh air and all that running probably did you the world of good. Go and put your feet up.[:)] Viki X

[michael.t47]

wow mote park
i used to live in shepway

[drowning-mummy]

We're still fairly new to Medway Michael, as we moved here from London to save money would you believe? Now up to our eyes in it!

[Kazzy E]

Wow Kaz, well done you. Running is so good for you physically and mentally. Bet you feel you have really achieved something good that others can benefit from today. Got you on myspace, the pics are lovely, especially your little babes. Hope you're feeling positive. Email me if you need a chat. Rgrds Kazzy x

[michael.t47]

us too we moved further out to ashford now about to lose an income at end of this month
then who knows
congrats on the run

[Kazzy E]

Kaz, forgot you were in Medway, I used to go to the Strande with my dog when I visited my sister. I really liked that area, feel like we left Dad there as he passed away in hospital there. There was a man who we met who rehomed retired greyhounds, and he used to walk about ten at a time. Lovely memories. Kazzy x

[drowning-mummy]

Oh I love the Strand. The babes and I live down there in the summer!

Well that was a good start to monday....NOT! remember how I said we only had £1.39 in the bank, well I logged on today to see if child tax credit had gone in and saw that my stupid husband had put a £2.99 McDonalds on his card on friday (when I told him not to use the card), making us go £1.60 overdrawn!!! That will now cost us £33! Have not had letter yet but just checked T&C's, so I guess Mr Post man will bring it today. I'm furious with him and have demanded that he hand his hard back to me asap when he gets in from work!!!!! Grrrrrrrr

[michael.t47]

great news just had a phone msg from tina, melanie is prepared to proceed with my case for an iva, so here i go

[angela18]

brilliant michael.. another hurdle cleared

[michael.t47]

just want it all sorted so i now on the road