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Post by Paula.bg » Tue Mar 22, 2011 8:35 pm
Hello. Feel in desperate need of some support this evening. 3 days to our creditors meeting & I am terrified. Feel sick with worry. I just don't know what we will do if it is refused. Please cross fingers & toes for us x
 
 

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Post by Paula.bg » Tue Mar 22, 2011 8:36 pm
Just seen that I've comeup as PLG. I am Paula.bg.Thanks
 
 

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Post by Judo » Tue Mar 22, 2011 8:40 pm
Paula. I am in the same position and feel exactly the same as you. Just keep telling yourself that your IP would not have put it forward if they were not confident. Have faith in them. I am sure everything will work out just fine and this time next week you will be on your way to debt freedom! I feel it in me bones ;) xx
 
 

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Post by Paula.bg » Tue Mar 22, 2011 8:45 pm
Thank you. I keep clinging on to that but keep getting into such a state. x
 
 

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Post by Shining » Tue Mar 22, 2011 8:46 pm
Hi Paula, all the best and keep coming to the forum for reassurance, keep busy for 3 days and I have everything crossed you'll have a positive outcome, easy for me to say don't worry as I'm sure you will but the best offer will be on the table. x
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Post by Paula.bg » Tue Mar 22, 2011 8:52 pm
I really do appreciate all these positive vibes. Just so scared. Things always seem so mush worse when you are tired as well. Yes, keeping busy but I am like a chocolate teapot at the moment - absolutely useless. x
 
 

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Post by Shining » Tue Mar 22, 2011 8:53 pm
Ah bless ya, well remember we're always around to offer reassurance/support along with the experts to give good knowledge.
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Post by kallis3 » Tue Mar 22, 2011 10:07 pm
Paula, you will be fine, don't worry.

We'll all be here waiting to congratulate you!
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Post by andrea1968 » Wed Mar 23, 2011 6:05 am
Good luck Paula-try and take your mind off the meeting-easier said than done-we were convinced it would be a no right up until the phone call saying yes!!!
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Post by clareyfarey » Wed Mar 23, 2011 7:39 am
We were all in the same boat at some point Paula, I remember it like yesterday! I went on a cleaning and DIY mission when I was waiting!
Like the others say, your IP wouldn't have put your offer forward if they weren't confident about acceptance.

Use the forum for support, one of us is always around!

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Post by kallis3 » Wed Mar 23, 2011 7:51 am
I just sat around feeling very wobbly - it got worse the closer the time got to the meeting!

I just couldn't settle to anything.
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Post by D&G » Wed Mar 23, 2011 9:54 am
Hi Paula, i know exactly how you feel. I have got health problems, so i am pretty much a chocolate teapot all the time. The last three nights i have only had two hours sleep a night. So health is deteriorating fast this week. Mine is next week. You are not alone, you have the full support of your friends on this forum. Best of luck, you are in my thoughts. Big hug x x x
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Post by Julie.je » Wed Mar 23, 2011 10:06 am
Hi Paula I remember the feeling well my stomach was doing somersaults for days before our meeting!!! but you will be absolutely fine and your creditors meeting will go without a hitch. Like the others have said your IP would not be putting forward your proposal if they didn't think it will get accepted. Just hang on in there and keep using the forum for support. Big virtual hug xx
 
 

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Post by susieq73 » Wed Mar 23, 2011 10:09 am
Good Luck Paula, I am sure it will all work out fine!.. Eveyone has doubts but when you see all the people on here who have gone through it and are in the process - it gives you a wee bit of a boost!..:)
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Post by Paula.bg » Wed Mar 23, 2011 11:38 am
Thank you. Only 2 sleeps now!
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