They are not stupid!!!
Depending upon the value of your property now, I would seek a re-mortgage based upon the highest loan to value you can get - you may be able to get 95%, and use the money raised to pay off a chunk of each debt on a pro-rata basis.
Now this where you then have to be disciplined! Cut up each credit card, and put the catalogues in the dustbin. Work out what you can afford to pay to creditors each month, and then divide that amongst the creditors in the same ratio as the amounts they are owed. Write to the creditors to say that you are having to pay them smaller amounts as a result of your financial difficulties, and if this does not work engage the services of a Debt Management Company to help with this.
With some careful budgeting, you can get yourself out of this hole without reverting to selling your property or entering into formal insolvency proceedings.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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http://www.melaniegiles.com and view my IVA blog at:
http://melaniegiles.blogs.iva.co.uk