Can I urge to also take advice from an insolvency practitioner - the only qualified professional actually licenced to give such advice.
They will not judge you, or comment on the history of your case, but merely outline the options available to you and the advantages and disadvantages of each one.
Good luck with your family chat. They may well end up being far more supportive than you think, and do let us know how you get on.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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