Hi Viki
I was in a DMP making very small token payments, a couple of my creditors refused to accept the payments stating that the debt was too large compared to such a small offering. I was constantly threated with house calls, I even recieved a card for a date and time. Nobody came, I was very nervous all day but noone came. This went on for over 19 months, for about six months I made no payments at all as my circumstances kept on changing.
Youre doing you best and thats all you can do, these people steadfastly believe that you can get blood from stones if they apply enough pressure. Point it out to them that you cant.
Hang on in there, we are all here for you, I know its scary but you dont have to discuss your circumstances verbally if you dont want to. Just tell them that youre not prepared to discuss it, they have been made aware of your circumstances and as soon as something changes they will be the first to know. Tell them if they send someone out you will ask the caller to leave, if they dont leave you will call the police.
Good luck, try not to worry.
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freelili on Tue Jun 03, 2008 1:28 pm, edited 1 time in total.