Hi catherine and welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear about your recent troubles and the fact that you have been left carrying debts you can no longer afford to repay.
If you have disposable income to offer to your creditors on an ongoing basis, you could consider entering into a Debt Management Programme or proposing an IVA. But if you are left with no, or little, disposable income after taking account of your normal household and personal expenses, then bankruptcy might be a better option for you.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
For further details contact me at
http://www.melaniegiles.com and view my IVA blog at:
http://melaniegiles.blogs.iva.co.uk