So your IP has assisted you in making a material misdeclaration of your financial circumstances? I am still unclear as to how you have been paying your mother, when your disposable income should have been properly declared to creditors at the outset of the IVA, and you ought to be paying your full disposable income to the creditors? How much are you paying your mother each month?
I feel dreadfully sorry for you, as you put your trust in members of my profession and you are left with this dilemma. I don't really feel that I can advise you further on this point, apart from to say that you ought to stop paying your mother, and see if your IP is prepared to put forward a variation to your creditors including the debt to her on the basis that it was left out by mistake. Your mother can then receive dividend payments alongside the other creditors.
I acknowledge that this may cause her financial difficulties, but that is no excuse for hiding the fact that she is owed money and preferring her debt at the expense of the other creditors. Interested to see what your IP has to advise re this issue. Is your mother aware that you are in an IVA?
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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