I Just give up...

[clive.g]

Yeah im kinda becoming an addict on here myself.. But its soo helpful.. knowing that im not the only person in the same situation that you can talk to.. I think even after i have gone through my iva or w/e the outcome.. I will still be on this site to advise others and for my own benifit also..

You learn so much having to go through it all..

I really do think this site is fantastic..

Clive xx

[clive.g]

Cheers Chris.g your a legend mate.. Legend is a good thing lol

Clive

[angela18]

you're right it is!! [:)]

[Skippy]

Keep positive Clive - your IP wouldn't be putting your IVA forward if they didn't have a very good chance of being accepted.

I do know how you're feeling though - 2 years ago I was robbing Peter to pay Paul and trying to keep it from my partner. I struggled on for another 4 months before actually doing something about it. Once I'd made the first phone call the relief was immense.

Good luck x

[buttercup]

I think the thing with meeting when they are looming is that at least you will have an answer even if it is bad news at least you know what you are fighting. The worst is not knowing if it is a yes or a no. If it is a no you can plan what to do next.

Clive you have so much fun, love ahead it is just getting over this problem which you will & then you will look forward not back.

Angela I can remember when you first posted & you had a big row with hubby and you were both very down. So good to hear you more positive. Melanie is great help. Same as above with Clive when you get your decision at least you can move forward. I am sure by the end of April we will all be celebrating

[angela18]

thanks buttercup.. fingers crossed