firstly thankyou all for your wonderful comments, i have read them and taken them on board, thats why i'm on here to get as much help and support as poss, especialy on those down days. I respect your comments no matter how hard hitting.
Mrs Moody,
hi, The iva was set up rather quickly, the only advice was to stop paying creditors, in the three months that it took, i paid H/H £700 over two months, with a promise of DMP whilst iva was being sorted, then the first payment of £380 on the day of the court hearing.
Melanie,
The IP gave us until the next day to accept the courts demand or lose the iva. I did explain that the plan was too tight, but it fell on deaf ears.You have said that we don't have the usual allowance guidlines can you elaborate on that please.
Ronald,
The car tax is for both cars, i have a Ka car, i need this for my 8yr old hospital appointments that are in another town, i also have a 21yr old with mental illness, who needs to be in my care for 5 days a week, and that a round trip of 18 miles a day, and i also look after my 86yr old aunt,who has medical condition's, i need to be able to get to her house in an emergency, so i need my car.
My husband has an almero tino, and has a 22mile round trip to work and back. We have had two cars for as long as i can remeber. i have however reduced our car insurance to meet the requirements of the iva, and i'm using the cheapest garage in town, it was the clutch and some sort of wheel in the gearbox that went, so that may be a resonable price, its a heck of a job you know.Thanks for the info on online products for my animals. i will check this out, we are being very careful with our money and working realy hard with the budget, and best of all is that we are discussing our finances on a regular base's with out condemnation of each other, i'm so proud of us both.
Kallis and skippy,
We are getting basics on prescription, such as bread flour pasta crackers and dry biscuits, but she is only eight and she always crys when we go shopping, its so hard for her to adjust, so we buy the free from stuff, such as, gravy yorkshire pudding, choc cereal, cake biscuuits, crisps, and some choclate, she has got to have her own toaster utensils, even butter, jam, marmite, nothing has got to be used by anyone else.Our IP has given us an extra £55 per month for food, which has reduced our IP payments to £325.
pennyless,
we have downsized from a four bed detached to a three bed terrace, which has reduced our elec/gas from £300 to £92 per month, but we sold as the market crashed and lost the equity, our mortgage is interest and capital and runs until we are 65, and i am 50 next yr.
again thankyou all for your comments they are gratefully recieved. x
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moneypenny on Mon Oct 19, 2009 11:33 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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