
The old saying goes that a man has to have a child , build his own house and plant a tree ..
The BR isn't the end of life , surely not - but the end of stability in terms of owing something like a house. To get back on a property ladder I'd have to wait until my wife gets on 25k job or better and with her flawless credit history she can buy one for herself - but then the prices will be out of her reach I suppose because her wages will never catch up inflation and the market. Perhaps shared-ownership scheme with me paying the 50% part rent from my wages would be a good solution.
and yes - the pressure and stress is really big - mounts up very quickly - quite unnecessarily - if creditors had a bit more human approach to insolvencies. They - especially the high interest companies are like unleashed dogs - they don't listen you just build up the pressure. They treat you like a criminal from the start. In the end of the day I have their comany interest at heart but if they do not work with me towards solution just play foul that brings us to BR which in my case now may mean they will get nothing back.
I do not understand reasoning behind their actions.
I'm now waiting for the CCJ judgement for the main creditor and NR to follow up on their charging order , so far continuing DMP payments as normal see if they can bear with me or will vote for BR themselves.