chelle wrote:
so whats the verdict - does everyone think my best option is bankruptcy?
what do you think about me shortening the term of the picture loan to ten years - will they do this? Do you think it will increase the payments too much?
I just want to get out of debt quicker than 25 years!
I honestly think given your circumstances that bankruptcy would be the best option. I have some experience with this, so I guess it's easier for me to consider, ultimately the decision is yours.
I know it's a lot too get your head round, but emotionally you'll feel a lot better about this once your free of the debt. It won't be easy, but I suspect a lot better than struggling on as you are.
I doubt picture will change the conditions of your loan, and you need to get on with your life, and not have this desperate mill stone hanging round your neck.
I imagine there probably was a time prior to you taking out the loan with Picture when either tighter spending or a DMP may have been the best option for your unsecured debts. I think unfortunately your past this stage now, especially considering the mortgage you have, which will only get more difficult to service.
Sell up, find a decent rented property that suits you, and go for it. It will mean a large shift in life style, but it will get easier after a relatively short period of time.
All the best whatever you decide do, and get that proffesional advice ASAP.