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[scaredkez]

i agree with you melanie, lily is so much stronger than she gives herself credit for and her posts to many new members are a breath of fresh air and the comfort they need at this time well done lily keep posting
kerri

[freelili]

Thank you so much, I actually thought I was a pain in the neck.

It has been a really long and difficult journey for me and I remember how scared and ashamed I was at the start of October, the people here reached out to me and I will always be really grateful for that. Although my 'agenda' has changed several times due to circumstances, I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. I just hope to give something back in return. I really do not like to think of people suffering,scared and stressed and really want to help.
Thanks for your kind words

LILY

[Skippy]

I agree with you Melanie. Despite having her own problems, Lily has always taken the time to help me, and I am really grateful for that.

I also agree with you Lily - I hate to think of people feeling alone and scared. I was lucky that I have a supportive partner, family and friends, but I know a lot of people have no-one. I am also lucky that I was able to tell them - I am quite up front (some may say gobby!) so at least I wasn't bottling it up. If I can offer help to anyone who needs it I will.

Onwards and upwards!!!

[lee_m]

lili, your words have help me over come my being ashamed scared and stressed, i use to read your posts long b4i had the gutts to talk or post anyone about my problems so thank you

[thebear29uk]

Lily

I think we have all seen the change in you but then we've all followed your rollercoaster ride since Oct. I was also a reader rather than a poster for several weeks but as I said in a post yesterday reading your posts, as well as Skippy's, Kerri's and Coco's always makes me feel humble and doesnt allow me to wallow in self-pity.
You seem to have found an inner strength which can happen in times of crisis and you will come out the other end a much stronger person.

Your mum would be so proud of you

Dave

[freelili]

Thank you so much for your kind words. I do not think anyone can possibly know what its like to be in debt, to be where we are/have been. I have learned a lot from this, one of them is to appreciate what you have got and the people that are in your life today. You really dont know what you have until it has gone. I have never felt so desperate in my life as I have this last few months, but also I have never felt so grateful. There really is so much pleasure in the simple things that are free in life. I didnt know that before and perhaps would have judged happiness by fortune, if that makes any sense. Anyway thanks guys.

good luck and best wishes to all
love

LILY