Thanks everyone
This forum has helped me so much as no one in my family or any friends know about my iva, this was a huge strain to take on my own and I think without this forum it would have been the end of me.
Mike
I hope your meeting with Melanie goes well, you have been on such a journey lately and I (and everyone on the forum, I am sure) so hope it works out for you and your family. I am so glad that I am single with no children during all this as I can't imagine how parents cope with trying to keep it all together and normal for the kids during the process. You really do sound like the best dad ever to me and your children are lucky to have that, I didn't growing up (now have a fantastic relationship with father, but did not speak for over 10 years). Keep your chin up, and try to focus on other, more positive, things while your case is progressing - you will get there!!
Take care
Emma x
Be positive & look after yourself, there are more important things in life than debts....
Best Wishes
Emma x