No good news

It seems I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Had a chat with a lovely lady yesterday. Unfortunately the news wasn't good.
Because we have 60k equity in our house, with the debts owing, we can't enter into an IVA. However, we can't access that money without selling the house, which in this climate is probably going to take too long. My DD has SN and moving was a last resort, she doesn't do well with change. If we sell the house, the council don't have to rehouse us as we will have made ourselves voluntarily homeless. The lady suggested a DMP, but as I mentioned before one of the creditors is coming next week to remove assets, so can't see us being successful with that. If I do nothing there is no doubt I will be made bankrupt and then we lose everything anyway. If I become bankrupt could we keep the house if it was transferred to DH's name as it is a family home for the 6 of us?
Of course I could always try and get another loan..........