Hi Blueman,
Sorry to hear your worries regarding IVA, but I am in more or less same boat.
I was 34k in debt in March 2006 (mainly my own stupid fault of living beyond my means, I admit!).
After trying to consolidate with my Bank whom I had been with for 17 years, but who refused me(after I chased them for an answer for 4 days mind!), an IVA company came to me and told me they could ‘fly in’ and save me! I was so grateful, and vulnerable, and naïve at the time, but after meeting them, I agreed to an IVA as it seemed so much better than the debts I was paying back at time.
My IVA started at £351, but 14 months on, it is now £419 per month (due to payrise). I actually phoned the IVA back in October 2006 to tell them what the payrise was, and I was told it was so little, it wouldn’t effect my IVA, until in January 2007, after sending in my payslips, I was informed it had gone up, and I also owed 3 months back pay!! When I informed them what was said in October, I was just told this was just what the person thought but wasn't fact! That’s fine then.
Now, I come out with £1000 per month after tax, and I moved back to my mum’s at start of IVA. When I was filling in my outgoings, I was told not to put down more than £200 per month on rent as it is only my mum, and should be able to help out! My mum is actually a widow who works part time and struggles for money, so I try to pay £240 per month. I was told to put down £150 per month for Food/Housekeeping. I pay for all my own food which is approx £100 per month, and apparently socialising come under this category, so that leaves me £50 per month to socialise (now I know that I have made financial mistakes and cannot expect to have an IVA and go out constantly, but £50 over 4 weeks - sometimes 5 weeks, is virtually impossible)
I also, and I know this is my fault, but in the panic in setting up the IVA, I forgot that I had 2 store cards, and so I never put these down as my creditors, so I am paying back £45 (minimum payment) per month for these!
All in all, I am now owing about £550 to family (mainly my mum) because I am finding it impossible to pay for everything, and I have now found out that my mum has extended her credit card amount (which she cannot afford to pay back!) and I feel so bad!
I have seen 2 financial experts in last week and I have been told that Bankruptcy was easily my best option instead of IVA because I have no assets (no house and car worth £500), but I feel like this wasn’t made apparent to me at the start. I was told IVA was right for me (but then again, why would an IVA company tell me to take bankruptcy as they would then not receive any admin costs or fees - they cannot be impartial).
I was in hospital yesterday with heart problems, and I have to have some surgery shortly, and this has made up my mind for me regarding my financial situation. I am going to speak to my IP and ask for them to petition for my bankruptcy, and if they refuse, I will let the IVA fail and do it myself!
I have tried to make it work, but I am still in more or less same situation as before. You only live once and the situation is not life or death, so I am going to do what is right for me.
Blueman, make sure you do what is right for you. Good Luck.
p.s. Fantastic Forum. I love reading all the helpful advice and comments. Especially love Skippy’s story.