Hi Katy, I'm not sure I can be described as calm and rational (Dave wouldn't think so!) but I'll try!
First of all, you are NOT going to jail! Thankfully they did away with debtors prisons years ago - with the amount of people in debt these days the system wouldn't be able to cope!
If bankruptcy really is your only solution (and from what you've said it sounds as if it is) it will take a great weight from your shoulders. Try and do it as soon as you have saved the money (£485) as the sooner it is done, the sooner you will be discharged. It's not the easy option (despite what some people think) but from the moment the judge signs that BR order you are protected from your creditors. They may still contact you, but you can give them your BR number, and if necessary fax / post a copy of your BR order.
You can complete the BR forms online and amend and save them as you go along which I found much easier than writing them!
Good luck, and if you have any questions please post them and we will try and help.
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