What a inspiring post Andy.
We all have high points in our lives..and lows.. and without experiencing the lows (like you have) you can never truly appreciate the highs.
I think most people on this site find that an IVA can be very tough, it does make you stop and take stock of your life and truly evaluate what is most important (ie family,friends etc)
My IVA is 2 years old now,and 2 years ago i "batterned down the hatches" for a long 5 year slog. 2 years in and I will hear this week if my full and final has been accepted..all down to the help and advice offered by yourself and this site.
As Andy says... Everyone on this forum..keep battling on,it is worth it in the end...and you will probably come out the other side poorer cashwise,but richer lifewise!
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