Update:
Spoke to Mam last night and told her everything, she was fantastic about it. As she isn't having a great time either at the moment i was extremley worried. I may now be totally ok as she is going to try to help me.
I now feel like the luckiest girl ever, fantastic mam and b/f. Just need to tell Dad now x
That's great news helpIVA, good luck with your Dad, I'm sure that will go fine too. I'm so glad you have very supportive and loving people surrounding you. X
its amazing that when we do pluck up the courage to tell family and friends just how accepting and supportive they can be...we didnt tell anyone really until after i discovered this forum...its nly been as i have journeyed past the shame and guilt that we have felt able to share with friends
we have been gobsmacked at how they have been so encouraging to us....
we get so wrapped up in what we think others will say....but they reality is that they love us anyway...no matter what.!! so keep on pressing forward....good for you
IVA completed 11th Dec 2009 due to a Full and Final with the fantastic help of Michael Peoples and
Mc Cambridge Duffy
Good luck for tonight. Let us know how you get on.
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The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
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