Me moaning again....

[Skippy]

I did something similar once - Dave and I had a row and I stormed off to the pub to prove that I didn't need him. I had rather a lot to drink and as it was dark I didn't want to walk, sorry lurch, home on my own so I thought I'd call a cab. I then realised that I didn't actually have any money for the cab, so ended up on the phone to Dave for a lift. I was very embarrassed, especially as Dave had to help me out of the car after I nearly fell out!

[freelili]

I did it twice, once years ago I bounced out, slamming the door and realised I didnt have the keys and thought sod it I will walk, so I went to a late night supermarket and did some food shopping, bought far too much to carry but carried it anyway, I had to keep stopping as the bags were ripping my hands, it was so hard to walk all the way home like that I nearly cried, but I did it and of course made believe I had had the most wonderful time and I wanted to walk, yeah right.

[Lisa2009]

Lesley good luck with the scan results.
I remember my MRI, it only lasted about 20 minutes but i was so scared and lonely in there.
You keep your chin up. Lifes being a bit rough on you at the minute but things will get better.

Big hugs from me also

xx lisa xx

[Shining]

The funny this is everyone, the MRI results are the last thing on my mind, I just want him to notice I'm here, for a little attention to detail as in a quick text saying 'hope it goes well today, you know where I am if you need me' etc., nothing much, to ask why I've got jeans on for work.

I've got to accept it's never going to happen. Oh well!

Thank you all, it's another day today and I'll get over the hurt that I'm experiencing right now.

You're all so nice and you can all keep me going with your kind words. Thank you from the bottom of my heart xx

[freelili]

Lesley

You have probably been the rock of the family, far too strong for your own good. He has no idea how you are feeling and perhaps feels you can cope with anything. You could just say how you feel to him and he may be quite shocked to find you have a vunerable side. I wasnt trying to make light of the situation or deflect from the situation, just trying to cheer you up. I know how it feels to be a vunerable rock, one that has to hold up no matter what and its no joke. Try being honest with him as feeling as you do is doing you no good. He needs to know, give him the chance to be with you on this. If it isnt going to happen, you have nothing to lose.

[Skippy]

Lesley, I wasn't trying to make light of your situation either, and I really hope everything works out for you x

[Shining]

Oh no, please do not think I thought that, it never even crossed my mind. This is the man that when I've had my hair done, doesn't notice. There are 3 things in his life fishing, football and his family and I'm guessing not in that order I should have wrote football, fishing and family. He's an only child (apologies to others) who is really only interested in himself.

We've had the talks before the tears and the tantrums, he promises to be more attentive and change and he does for a couple of weeks, but then slips back into his old ways. I'll tell him I went for MRI scan and he'll say oh sorry I forgot but he forgets everything unless it involves him, he never forgets to go fishing!

Ooh I sound angry but I'm not, it's hard to explain on here. Please please please never think I thought you were making light of the situation I never did and appreciate the comfort I get from the posts, I feel as though you are listening to me and do care xx

[zoe]

Hi Lesley
I think we live in the same area, and will probably have gone to the same hospital. I had an MRI 5 years ago at the hospital and they said i had to wait 2 weeks for the results. They then called me that afternoon to say needed to see me - you can imagine my panic!!!
What i am trying to say is no news is good news???
Z xxx

[freelili]

No I didnt think you thought that, I was just concerned that I had come across that way.

MY ex was spoilt rotten, his Mom doted on him, it was bucket stuff at times. He didnt think the world revolved around him, he knew it and it still does. I felt as you do at times, just wanted him to care, but these types are incapable of empathy for others, they are at the centre of their world and nothing will ever change that. I was lucky my Mom and Dad understood it all and helped me through some of the worst times, like when my children were diagnosed, the divorce etc. We all need others at times and right now we are all here.

What will be will be, youre very strong, you will deal with it.

Good luck with everything and take care.

Love and hugs