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Post by kallis3 » Wed Oct 19, 2011 2:17 pm
I'm sure you will be fine Steve.
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Post by luluj » Wed Oct 19, 2011 4:08 pm
any news yet Blue eyes?
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Post by flumpy dog » Thu Oct 20, 2011 4:06 am
up early for work !
blue eyes i will check in later hun but i sincerely wish you a successful outcome and sure you will get it keep busy and keep thinking positively xxx fd
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Thu Oct 20, 2011 7:58 am
Blue eyes was approved yesterday FD.
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Post by Rosepetal » Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:08 pm
hi Steve.123, the waiting is so,so stressful isn't it?

creditors including Lloyds pestered us very close to out meeting date,several times a day. the added charges worried us but in reality once accepted (i'm sure you will be) it makes NO difference to your IVA.

hang in there[;)]
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Post by Steve.123 » Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:14 pm
Hi yeh its only 6 days to go now and im starting to worry i feel sick all the time and even feel like crying. Just spoke to my IP and they said for me to ring them 15 minutes after my meeting has started and hopefully get an answer but said depends on the creditors and if they want to change anything. I think the next week is going to break me [:(]
 
 

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Post by Shining » Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:24 pm
Keep coming to the forum for support we'll do all we can to see you through this week. x
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Post by Steve.123 » Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:32 pm
Hi Lesley thanks, i will do i am just fearing the worst thats all. All i do is think about it all the time which is why i am struggling to sleep night times etc x x
 
 

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Post by Shining » Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:37 pm
I used to think IVA 100% but once you get on your journey although it's in the back of your mind, it doesn't take over your life. I'm sure you'll be fine. x
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Post by Rosepetal » Thu Oct 20, 2011 4:48 pm
hi,support here helps-loads! i slept badly,when i did sleep i'd wake in a sweat with nightmares about the debts,it was a terrible time.

in a weeks time you'll be giving support to others at your point now[;)]. your not alone.
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Post by Steve.123 » Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:05 pm
Rosepetal wrote:

hi,support here helps-loads! i slept badly,when i did sleep i'd wake in a sweat with nightmares about the debts,it was a terrible time.

in a weeks time you'll be giving support to others at your point now[;)]. your not alone.
Thanks for your surport, the next week cant come quick enough all i can think about is what if it fails. Thats on my mind all the time x x
 
 

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Post by Foggy » Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:06 pm
it's unlikely to fail, try to have positive thoughts and try to keep yourself busy for the next week. Before you know it you will be in the good ship IVA :0)
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Post by Steve.123 » Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:08 pm
Foggy wrote:

it's unlikely to fail, try to have positive thoughts and try to keep yourself busy for the next week. Before you know it you will be in the good ship IVA :0)
thanks foggy i hope so x
 
 

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Post by Tina Shortland » Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:18 pm
Hi Steve123 - I know its easier said than done but try not to stress yourself out - you can't change the outcome and your IP will have done everything they can to give you the best possible chance I am sure. You know you are doing everything to offer what you can to your creditors and they will see that so trsut the procees and give yourself a break - you have done everything you can do for now.

Keep posting and it'll be your post after the meeting before you know it.

Also, as it seems to have got lost in thread - well done to blueeyes on the positive result.

Best wishes both :-)
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Post by Steve.123 » Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:22 pm
Hi Tina thanks for your advice, i will try and not think about it x
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