Than you jasperyogi for your reasurrance. Nice to know others linked to forces can appreciate the eventualities.
jpj I appreciate your comments, and I also appreciate that through the written word one truly can not understand ones circumstances.
Everything you say I can nod at.
Our query in more detail, (it's good to be able to go into more detail)
Before our IVA we could pay our bills and never missed a payment, we had a very good credit rating. I ahd tried to start a business and was stung 6 months into it, (no details here afraid) we asked if I alone could enter an IVA to which we were told no we had to do a joint IVA. If we hadn't done an IVA as of May last year some debts would've been paid, and in june another, in total over £600 would been spare money, we pay £750 in an IVA, surely if a lot of debts were to be paid within 18 months, there would've been other options.
We did see in the contract about the 3 payments thingy, but we weren't told about this when we asked about eventualities happening,eg our dog, who did in the end grow wings and flew to heaven last May, and we specifically asked the Q. When we saw the contract it was too late not to enter into an IVA because we had missed 2 months payments to our debtors, and would've been extremely difficult to repay back, not to mention the default notices.
They did allow us to miss a payment re the vets fees, the problem comes when the bill is over 2k. which alone is nearly the 3 months in arreas, within 2 months of signing upto an IVA our car failed its MOT and cost nearly 1k to correct, this was our first payment drop. The exact reason why we asked what would happen if we had unforeseen circumstances. This we could've managed before but only just.
Re a baby, yet again you are dead right, but and a big but, I found out I was infertile and have been having treatment on the NHS well before the IVA, and again we asked what would happen if we fell PG, (we have only found out how difficult it can be by looking at this site for the last yr.)It is hard that for so long we have wanted to complete our family, 7yrs, to find out there is light. We have gone through too much re fertility to stop now, and this was expressed at our IP meeting/discussion.
We are now, luckily, living ok. So could support a child, bearing in mind that the IP representative said it wouldn't be a problem, so we went ahead with the agreement, with a positive attitude. We have 3 yrs left to our IVA and my body clock is ticking. My other half is a few yrs older than me and that is a concern, for the sake of 3 yrs what would you do?
If we fell PG now, the birth would be Dec, (nearly one yr,) after one yr mat leave that would leave one yr of the IVA left to run. Would they really make us BR if we went for a variation, with only a year left to pay?
I hope i've managed to shed more light on the situation. I wish the site had the facility to record a voice message rather than written, it would be so much easier to express feeling/situations via voice.
BR is not allowed for forces, there are lots of repercussions, my point was should'nt we have been told about DMP in our consultations? Was an IVA really our last option? Were certain details kept from us?
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The Stones on Wed Mar 26, 2008 4:30 pm, edited 1 time in total.