Aw Kallis, I'm sorry, I really didn't mean to make you cry, but someone said this to me when I lost my parents and it was so true.
You will cry every day numerous times at the beginning. Then only a few times a week after that. Then when things turn up to remind you, periodically the tears will arrive again. But then a few months will go by and then suddenly, it will dawn on you that you haven't cried recently. It is at at this stage, that you realise that you are coming to terms with your grief and life is more bearable again. I still cry on their birthdays, my birthday, their anniversaries and at Christmas and miss them terribly every day, but I can get through life now without them encompassing my every thought (debt does that now), so I have now accepted that they are now gone.
This is true for our animals as well, as I felt the same when I laid my little cats to rest.
Hope you're both feeling better soon hunniis.
Kazzy x
