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Post by neil1 » Sun Nov 23, 2008 8:34 pm
my partner wants to take a new job but does not want to contribute any more to my iva i have said she must but she is refusing.
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Post by kallis3 » Sun Nov 23, 2008 8:43 pm
Hi Neil and welcome.

Is this IVA solely in your name? What contributions does your partner make?
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Post by Lisa2009 » Sun Nov 23, 2008 8:48 pm
To be fair, she shouldnt be contributing to your IVA anyway. As long as she proves she pays her percentage to the household then that should be all thats expected. Any surplus income of hers would be hers to keep.
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Post by neil1 » Mon Nov 24, 2008 7:15 pm
at present she contributes all her salary and does not want to contribute anymore.
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Hi Neil and welcome.

Is this IVA solely in your name? What contributions does your partner make?
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Mon Nov 24, 2008 7:23 pm
To be honest Neil, I don't blame her. It's your IVA and she shouldn't be paying it anyway.
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Post by Skippy » Mon Nov 24, 2008 7:35 pm
I agree with Jan - I certainly wouldn't want to contribute all my salary if my OH had an IVA.

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Post by plasticdaft » Mon Nov 24, 2008 9:46 pm
Why was she contributing to your IVA Neil?? Are you still together??
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Post by Julie » Mon Nov 24, 2008 9:51 pm
I'm in your partners position - I had to declare my income for the IVA to go ahead. Its so I can show I'm paying my fair share towards household expenses.Any payrises I've had since then are not included - though the rise in fuel etc has swallowed them up.
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Mon Nov 24, 2008 9:54 pm
It sounds as though she is paying more than that though Julie. It's one thing declaring your income and paying your fair share, quite another to be paying all of your salary across.
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Post by Lisa2009 » Mon Nov 24, 2008 9:56 pm
Julie, thats the whole point though. You only declare what you earn to show that you pay your fair share to the household.
I am assuming that neil's partner is not happy with that. Its not as if she is paying the IVA.

neil please correct me if i am wrong.
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Post by kallis3 » Mon Nov 24, 2008 10:02 pm
I could have read it wrong, I thought she was paying across to it. Apologies if she's not.

She shouldn't be paying all of her money across though.
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Post by Lisa2009 » Mon Nov 24, 2008 10:05 pm
Agreed but if the IVA is in neil's soul name then i dont see how she would be paying for it, unless it was the only way to have it approved.
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Post by kallis3 » Mon Nov 24, 2008 10:11 pm
I couldn't see that happening. I rather got the impression that she paid him, and he paid it across. It's the way the original post was worded, and I've more than likely got it wrong!
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Post by james.c » Tue Nov 25, 2008 6:27 am
If the IVA is in your name only and your partner did not contribute to the debt, ie you got this debt before you knew her or before you moved in together then i am in total agreement with her, why should she have to pay in to it or prove her wage
 
 

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Post by Julie » Tue Nov 25, 2008 7:38 am
Neil, if you can post a bit more detail, we may be able to help... did your partner benefit from the debts? Is she saying that she wants absolutley nothing to do with the IVA? Can you manage the repayments without her income?

If she didn't benefit from the debt then I wouldn't declare my income either if I was her.

If you can't manage the repayments alone you should work out how much you could afford and contact your IP ASAP.

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