You bang on about this as much as you like Johnz - I agree with you that it is unfair, especially when you consider that under bankruptcy proceedings his income would not be taken into account at all.
But also the OR would not allow you to pay rent to him at a rate higher than the value of your share of the mortgage and shared bills, which you have actually agreed to do, in consideration for previous loans he had made to you.
If it is any consolation, and it probably isn't, this would be the same for life and civil partners as well as married couples.
Glad to see that the wheels of your DMP are starting to turn - you seem so much stronger now than your original posts indicated. In a few weeks this will all have settled down, and you will be able to put debt repayment into a little compartment in your life which is manageable.
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