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Hi let me introduce myself , Im Hamish , age 53 single dad with a 14 yr old daughter who lives with me. I'm in full time employment as a civilian with the local police force.
I'm new on here, this is my first post.
I have the usual litany of grief, single parent for 8 years, 2 marriages, but on reflection being made redundant 2 years ago was the one that finally put me beyond normal debt, I just didnt know it at the time.
I did what seems to be normal here, paid all my bills , mortgage etc but ended up borrowing & consolidating to make ends meet and buy food, clothes etc . Struggling, stressing, feeling guilty, sleepless nights, life generally sucks. No girlfriend ( cant afford to date ), cant afford a holiday ( Im talking camping here ) .
I now find myself here, and reading all the posts, absorbing as much as I can, trying to get my head around all the pitfalls & problems and smiling at a lot of the posts, its so good to see people de-stressing and getting themselves sorted out.
I have already spoken to PayPlan, started the process 2 weeks ago before I found this place. and am aiming to go for an IVA . Then I read some of the N/Rock posts -- oh dear.
I have a weird N/Rock mortgage , interest free but it has a loan element , I couldnt get a 100% mortgage
so
£93000 intrest free mortgage -n/rock -this is secured - finishes 2018
£20000 loan - n/rock - unsecured - finishes 2018
£23000 loan - RBS - unsecured - finishes - 2013
£ 2680 Credit card - Halifax
£ 950 Cedit card - RBS
Just looking at the figures make me sweat.
PayPlan worked out some allowances for me , and a debt managemant plan based on what I could afford which was .. errr ... well I would be age 70 by the time it was paid off ( Im 53 remember ) . So thats not really feasible .
I have a 14 yr old daughter who lives with me, so I really need somewhere to live , so it looks like the IVA route ... then I read the N/rock posts .. arrgh !
Pay Plan have told me to pay my mortgage ( £457 out of total £615 due to N/rock ) and make token payments to the others .. this meant cancelling my diriect debits ... that was sooo much fun , I bank with the RBS , initially they refused to cancel my d/d for their loan £371 a month ! I had a hell of a row with them but they eventually agreed to cacel it provided I make a token payment with a covering letter .. initially they told me to pay them and not pay my mortgage - I pointed out that I need somewhere to live and thats when they eventually agreed to cancel the d/d.
Just in case, I have opened an account with the CO-OP , has debit card, cheque book but NO overdraft, Ive also told my payroll people to pay next months wages into my Coop account, I have asked the COOP to transfer my d/d -utility bills , poll tax, phone etc .
Things to do - I have SKY it cost me £15 per month for ther minimum TV package, I have BT for phones and broadband -- turns out I can get SKY, phone and broadband for £15 per month from SKY still have to pay £11 to BT line rental ) but that may save money.
Reading the other posts I may have some trouble getting an IVA - N/rock 'own' a faily high proportion of the debt.
Any advice would be welcome.
I think that I need to cancel my account with the RBS
Phew -- enough for a first post !
Early Discharge is not an illness !