Hi Everyone,
I am new to the forum, found it by accident while searching for some information.
I have got myself into a bit of a mess (£50000 aprx ) 2 loans 6 credit cards, for last few months I have been using 2 to pretty much live on, adding to the problem, paying minimum payment which only reduced the debt by £20- 30 but then using cards to get petrol etc using £50 plus a time, I have now maxed the cards out and used my overdraft for the last two months, this month I have worked out that I will not have enough to pay all my commitments, and have enough for living expenses etc I know it is my fault for being none to clever with managing my finances, and only have myself to blame.
I was just wondering what I can do, I have never been in this position before in my life and feel very ashamed and embarressed about it, do I write to all my creditors and explain things, only the ones that I cannot pay, do I pay all a liitle less this month to all or not pay some, I just dont really have a clue, I have been reading posts for a while now and I know there must be a way forward for me just not sure what, is an IVA an option or do I have to let things get worse ?. I Have to try and get things sorted without my employer finding out, I have read stories of people being hounded at work etc by creditors, I work for a company that deals in Precious metals etc so being in debt is very much frowned upon and could jeopardise my employment, might be too tempted to steal the gold is the view they have, I have seen how others are treated when they are suspected of financial problems. Thats enough for now have to go to work for night shift.
Regards
Mark